Acknowledging Spiritual Trauma
The need for Reconciliation with 2SLGBTQ+

Following General Synod in 2019 and the failure of the marriage canon to be affirmed at the National Level, St. Paul's hosted a Pride service which included the diocesan youth representative - Sydney Brouillard-Coyle - talking about the experience of being a Queer youth at General Synod.  This created a sense of awareness of the harm these ongoing conversations about whether to include 2SLGBTQ+ individuals in all of the sacraments can have on those who identify as 2SLGBTQ+.  St. Paul's responded by choosing to fly the Pride Flag in support.

Negative Reactions
Confronting the responses of some

Choosing to fly the Pride flag resulted in comments made over social media and even a letter to the rector protesting the action.  Someone actually stole our pride flag (twice to date).  Each time we encounter this opposition, we were reminded that if people are willing to treat a church this way because of a decision to support the 2SLGBTQ+ community, what are they willing to say and do to the 2SLGBTQ+ community itself.

Response
Love is an action

This led us to engage even more with the 2SLGBTQ+ community hoping to show by our actions that all are valid, all are valued, all are loved.  We fly the Pride and Trans flags in our sanctuary.  Include multiple Pride flags in our Fun with Flags ministry.  Host Pride services and Trans Day of Remembrance Service.  Sponsored a Pride Flag raising at Town Hall and hosted a BBQ following.  And are currently working to build a partnership with Trans Wellness Ontario which includes the rector serving as Chaplain for the organisation to build relationships and work towards addressing Spiritual Trauma in the community.